Wednesday, February 18, 2015

MTE's, Temple, and less-actives

Sorry that I got on to write so late today! We went to the temple, and got there in time for the 11:00 session. We got there with plenty of time to spare, and when we got into the session, people just kept pouring in. It was mostly because one woman in particular was going through for the first time. There were SO MANY WOMEN. They overflowed into the men's section. They almost didn't have enough workers to handle the surge in numbers. Then, in the middle of the session, the woman receiving her endowment had a huge coughing fit, and they put the session on pause for a bit, until she could get a drink of water. Then we continued. Once we were in the celestial room, there were TONS of missionaries. Sometimes, I like it better when there aren't many missionaries, because the Spirit stays stronger. Since there were a lot of them, I felt that the moment was ruined a little bit. But that's just me.

Wednesday, we had MTE's, and I got moved to another area for the day. I was put in a trio in La Mesa with some Elders that are pretty new to the mission. We went and started the day off with a less-active visit, and we read from and talked about some chapters from the Book of Mormon. We then went and tried to find some new investigators, and were able to add one and invite her to be baptized. She accepted after a bit of explanation on why we invite people to be baptized. We then went to visit a member family and have dinner with them. We watched a talk by Thomas S. Monson, and talked about the importance of member-missionary work. We then went to a part-member family home, and they had dinner set out for us, so we got to eat twice. The boyfriend isn't a member, and the girlfriend is. They've been having a rough time, and I think it's because the guy is stuck in what he believes. He tried to defend what he believed by attacking what we believed. Now as for me and myself, I don't tolerate that. So I asked some questions about why he felt the way he did, and clarified his understanding on the what and why of our beliefs. He brought up polygamy and I answered his questions using the recent essays that have been released by the church. He sat pretty stubbornly in what he thought, and kept saying,"Well, as a CHRISTIAN, I believe in this or that." and when I asked,"Well, what's a Christian?", he wouldn't answer the question. I got a little heated if you couldn't tell, BUT, we kept it cool as we all shared our thoughts.

Thursday, I got back with Elder Y., and the Elder that he had been with for the MTE's was a strange one. He said that he was really glad that I was back. I'll admit, I was glad to be back, too. We had lunch and got our weekly planning done after that, and went on to visit some less-actives that neither of us had met yet. We found some at home, and were able to get some return appointments set. We then went to dinner with some members, and afterwards, went to teach L. We had decided to teach about the importance of the Apostasy vs. the Restoration to help her grasp the concept of how the authority to administer gospel ordinances was lost, and was then restored through Joseph Smith. Halfway through the lesson, however, she had to leave because her baby started making a really big fuss because he was sick. So, we'll just have to work with her more this week. We then went and tried to find a referral, and actually found him home! His name's V., and he's 16 years old. We started talking about the things that he likes, and were able to transition into the Gospel. We taught simply, and tried our best to help him understand the need for the Savior and His Gospel, and when we finished teaching about baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost, he said that he'd like to be baptized. Elder Y. and I both spaced completely on getting him a specific baptismal date, so I'm guessing that the Spirit just made us forget, because you'd think that we would do that right off the bat when the person says they want to get baptized. But no. Neither one of us thought to ask, so we said that we'd come back and teach the Restoration. It was a pretty awesome lesson!

On Friday, we had breakfast with some members who were going to feed us dinner that day, but had to reschedule because of a time conflict. So we went and had California burritos for breakfast, and went from there to district meeting. After district meeting, we went and did some contacting, and found some less-actives at home. We were then about to go eat with a less-active, but he cancelled, so we went and had dinner with R. He sent us over to Domino's on our bikes, and we brought some pizza back. We then went and met with another man whom we thought was a member, but he turned out to be a non-member. So we unknowingly had an investigator lesson, even though he didn't really want us to come back and teach him again.

Saturday, we got some things done early on, got chastised by a guy on the street for not helping the homeless people more, (that was fun), had lunch, and went to meet some people. We visited a less-active whose husband came out and told us that she didn't want to be a member anymore, so we shouldn't come back anymore. That surprised us. We went and visited a less-active in the same complex and talked about what he could do to be ready to baptize his daughter in a few weeks' time. We then went and had coordination, and it went...alright, I guess. We then went to give a blessing to a member in our area. Her oldest daughter is going through severe cancer treatments and surgery, and the other has been sentenced to several years in jail, so she was pretty distraught. We gave her a blessing, and gave her some words of comfort, and went home.

Sunday, we fasted for that sister to whom we gave the blessing, and the other Elders had lunch with a member right after church. Right before we left to go do that, the sisters asked us to go take the sacrament to an elderly sister who can't leave her home. We ran over and did that, and went to leave the Elders at their lunch appointment. They're short on mileage, so we didn't go anywhere, and just sat in the car and did our studies. They took for-stinking-ever, and we went to our dinner appointment afterwards. DINNER appointment. That's how long it took. We then went and visited some other members in the same complex as the dinner appointment, went to visit another less-active in a different complex, had a lesson with him, and went home after a bit of not finding anyone at home after that.

Yesterday, we had some pretty great success since it was President's day and tons of people were home from work and school. We tried to have a lot of lessons with investigators, but surprisingly, none of them were home. SO, instead, we went and visited tons of less-actives. We were able to have tons of good lessons, and were out in the cool, ocean breeze the whole day. I was surprised at how cool and humid it was! El Cajon is always hot and dry. As we walked around, I contacted a guy in Arabic, and didn't go very far before I couldn't say anymore. Luckily his friend came over and started translating for us, and the guy said that he wasn't interested. Oh well. Then our dinner cancelled on us again, so we ate at home this time. We then went out and started biking, and as we were going, there was this couple of girls and an older gentleman that were trying to push a couch across the street. We parked our bikes, picked the couch up, and took it to their apartment. They were Arabic, so they didn't get much of what we were saying, and we didn't get much of what they were saying, but we were able to help them out in the moment that they most needed it. I thought it was pretty cool. We then ran into the Arabic Elders and suggested that they could probably stop by and visit them to see if they'd like to learn about the gospel. A few of our set appointments fell through, so we visited a less-active guy that's 22 years old, and we were able to break the ice with him. He's pretty "meh" about the church, but we were able to get him to express a few of his concerns. Elder Y. and I both thought that it went really well.

Eh-yup! That's just about it for this week! Oh, and don't worry about the bike, Mom. Another Elder is letting me use his until I finish the mission so that I don't have to buy one. As for the missionaries in the branch, we have two Sister training leaders and four Elders. We're mostly working with less-actives right now because of the huge number that we have. We're hoping to be able to find some new investigators soon.

Have a great week, everyone! I love you!

-Elder Crook

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